Relationships · Married

How to be a better husband, for the long run.

Strong marriages are built in small, daily moments, and so is drift. Learn to repair fast, talk about money as a team and keep showing up, in five minutes of your scroll time a day.

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The whole Relationships track

First lesson free · Free week on the annual plan · No account to start

In the Relationships track

What you'll find out.

You've watched hundreds of videos and kept almost none of it. MASTRD is only the ideas that matter, and everything you learn keeps coming back. Here are five of them; the how is in the lessons.

  1. The one fighting habit researchers link most strongly to divorce
  2. Why how you fight about money matters more than how much you have
  3. Why couples who last aren't the ones who fight least
  4. The ratio stable couples keep during a fight, and why it matters
  5. What a veteran divorce lawyer sees end more marriages than cheating

Why it sticks

Five reasons it never stuck. Fixed.

  • You forgot it.

    A system designed to help you remember brings every idea back right before you'd forget it.

  • You never used it.

    Every lesson makes you use it: real situations, spotting the mistake, saying it out loud. Then you try it for real and check in on how it went.

  • You had no time.

    It takes five minutes of your scroll time, and refreshers wait on your lock screen.

  • You learned from the wrong people.

    Built on how self-made founders and executives actually work, plus research and specialists.

  • You did it alone.

    Your circle of up to 12 friends sees whether you kept your standard this week, and can nudge you when you slip.

Questions

Questions, answered.

  • A good marriage is good for your health: a review of 126 studies linked better marriages to better health. The lessons cover daily habits, money as a team and staying close for decades.

  • Repair matters more than never fighting: stable couples still argue, but they stay warm and make up well. The lessons cover fair fighting, money talks and weekly check-ins.

  • Busy seasons, like a new baby or a big work push, can crowd a marriage out. The lessons cover weekly rhythms, everyday attention and repair after fights.

Start with relationships.

On the annual plan: a free week, then under 20 cents a day.

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